我们不能说的秘密

2009-08-16T07:44:00.000-07:00

i love leaving my writing marks everywhere.

take a rerun of "Nothing's gonna change my love for you"
english oldies rock.

recently i caught backstreet boys on MTV and reminded me of how i actually listened to backstreet boys back in 2003.

"Show me the meaning of being lonely". weird melody.
"As long as you love me". kinda classic
"I want it that way". with bert's influence its kind of hard to kick it

yeah, nothing beats old stuff. like country music!

okay. time to mug some GP. if GP could ask me all about bach's life or review an album, i would be more than willing to spend more time on it.

some crazy times until next tuesday! then it will be total release from CCA :D
oh yeah, if you wanna spot me in esplanade (which i dont think anyone wants to anyway) just be there for some concert and you can see this odd combination of DARK BLUE + LIGHT PINK (i think...NJ?) gowned people singing weird songs sounding like a total dork.

yeah. off pitched rain and absolutely funny croaking.

catch up soon!

2009-08-13T09:28:00.000-07:00

this is the 56th post on himitsupimi! i wonder if people still come here randomly to read?:D

himitsupimi is really my 避風港manz. izzit like the only blog that people dont know about? its a good thing though. semi-private blog:D ok. as you can see. my english havent improved, gave up chinese too. i wonder what is left of me...

promos are coming. like -_- PROMOS. havent block test just passed? why promos are coming so soon? i think im so goign to screw up my promos. ahma and janeytwin are going to do fine and i'll be their no. one fan! haha. okay la. cannot like that must work hard le. upload the hc spirit and mug! ahma uphold vj spirit and MUG too!! haha relive the himitsupimi poweress!!!:D blog cum studying avenue!:D

okay la. im like not supposed to be so high now. ok im not high now.

janeytwin just went to brush her teeth (asked to blog about this)
and ahma! i havent been talking to you for long! i miss you alot alot alot!

and the ou xiang ju's
the latest one that i watched was mr brain. which was nice! ahma must go and watch!!! taiwan ones i think i havent heard of anything good yet:D the love for youtube for me has dropped:( BECAUSE MY COMPUTER'S FLASH PLAYER GOT PROB) so im licing without flash now:(

emoing--
i seriously think im too slack le. and i need to do stuff efficiently and use clever methods man. and stop fu yan-ing people. i hate fuyan people and so DONT BE ONE!

rah.

haha. i cant write as long as janeytwin la! you all write longer kays?:D

-------------------jammytwin:DDDDD

2009-06-03T04:32:00.000-07:00

[ in an attempt to blog earlier so that all can see. otherwise i'll end up blogging at 2am or sth -_-]

SORRY!
i never post here for very long. honestly to say, just now when i finished reading through ALL the posts (yes, ALL the posts) in this blog i felt DAMN EMO and whatnot, YOU KNOW HOW I'M LIKE :x haha, but because there was a DINNER BREAK in the middle and so after eating my orange and banana i'm not as emo! :D food makes the world go round, YEAHHH!

and YEAH i guess this will be some sort of a 讀后感 :x but HAHA wont be emo la!!! :D i decide to be happy today, and HOPEFULLY that will extend until the time i come online again at around 12midnight :D so that jam wont always suffer the brunt of my emoness/anger/emotional bouts.

well, AFTER reading all these, i felt VERY OLD, in fact, the prospect of my birthday coming up (NO HINTS HERE! HONESTLY! i'm very humble and nice and :D yeah :D) the idea of how rapid we have grown has really frightened me to god-knows-what extent. (by judging all the LAME DAO BAO emo posts on my blog) and yeah, like what ahma said (which i think she read from my blog -.-) i'm not even sure whether have we changed for the better. ok, maybe for me only.

i dont know, perhaps this change thing is really cliche and lame and stupid because there's always change, and there's not much point harping over it. oh well, being a sentimental IS personality figure rocks in some ways i guess.

maybe lets see it this way, being emo is unnecessarily bad, because its actually just a more negative self-reflection of what we've been through, what we see of this world, and what we see of ourselves. (and yeah...maybe i'm trying to make myself sound damn noble :x) but being so self-reflective, sometimes it harms us, more than often, we (or rather, I) lose a lot while being emo...like the extra time could be spent spamming facebook, or reading up on cell division / eukaryotic genomes / talking with other people / practicing the piano. honestly, i dont know. but YEAH, being emo takes a toll on your mental health, thats why you end up mental like me!

ok WHATEVER. i'm being lame again. HEY wait GP tutor say i must stop using lame and whatever. -_-

ok, for one thing that i can be certain, we all have changed in our own ways. while i give my own self-reflection of terror and unwillingness to accept, we can actually see change in a better light.

yeah, like what ahma said, changes in whatever listed in the profile :x "changes in consumers' taste and preferences" under the factors affecting demand (WHAT THE i'm being lame!), it actually reflects some kind of a change. emotionally? i dont know. perhaps i've learnt to see more stuff in a clearer light, or maybe i have actually clouded my own senses in the indulgence of emoness. but whatever it is, some kind of change has already occured.

ok, forgive my bad vocab at this point of time. i realise i keep using the same old words. :x and MY HORRIBLE line of thoughts just keep jumping about :x sorry!

well, lets see, change in a better light? maybe i got to know myself better throughout these few months down the road, of how flawed my personality is and all that. i get to witness how other people change and evolve in new environments, and yeah, i witnessed a lot of things, good or bad, it doesnt really matter at this point of time.

nevertheless, i guess there are always parts of us that can never be changed. like the habit of sleeping late continues to persist in my already half-dead life, or the habit of being emo, or the habit of blogging, or the habit of going on msn everyday. (unless it was like on saturday/sunday which i accidentally fell asleep at 10:30 and woke up at an appalling 10am the next day :O) lets just rejoice that we manage to retain some human parts of ourselves that we actually like. not that i like sleeping late or being emo or blogging or what, but it just gives me an indication that i'm still alive, i'm still breathing, and i'm still living.

right now, we should just focus on how to cherish happiness while we still have it, or when it comes by. do what you want, what you can, what you wish to do, while you still have the ability to do so, i dont know, maybe its the age thing creeping up on me, but i have the feeling that when i hit 18 i'm so going to lose half my life. god knows why, 18 just feels very old, yet its not far away. or maybe its just going to be another new lease of life just like our 17th year on planet earth, totally new, totally...i dont know. right now, lets just enjoy ourselves, whether is it killing people during taekwondo, dancing in wherever you are/can dancing/dance, or singing in choir! :D

well, while we're busy with our whatnots (grades + choir + diploma!) lets just find time, sit down, drink coffee (OR EAT APPLE -- for jam), stone, relax, and watch time fly by. even though i only do that once every 5 months, which just happened recently.

lets not get washed away by the tide of people and time. control time, before it takes control of us. YEAH. rebellious me is building up again. but i hate sleeping on the buses and i always have to get reminded by random passersby to wake up because i've reached the interchange. that shows how bad it is :(

ok. wait. i guess this is REALLY LONG right.
hmm. well, at least i feel accomplished after typing it, but i'm sacrificing practicing piano time to do this :D heck my piano la.

and yep, today is dasao's birthday :D HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

I'LL BE BACK, soon.
-- erm yeah, YES i promise. even though PW is stagnant :(

how much we've changed...

2009-06-02T08:26:00.000-07:00

seeing jammy reminded me of this secret haven...
haha (not so secret anymore cos some random kid decided to pop by)
gosh was just "re-exploring" this blog, and it made me see how much we've changed, whether for the better or worse, that's left to you to judge.

and i'm not as Chinese-chinese as my twins,
moreover VJ culture is so O.O angmoh
what the hell la.

anyway, seeing our likes and dislikes
haha that has changed a little i guess!
i mean the idol dramas.. gosh i hardly keep up anymore,
no time and nth really nice to watch la-.- dunno about jammy:)
and the rest pretty much the same i guess. i'm still HIGH over *ahem-ahem*
as for dislikes, more have been added:)
except i think ss501 should be cut some slack:) they're on totally different levels now:) as for bigbang, like jane likes TOP+G dragon, the latter i've gotta disagree with, haha and i like TOP (joongie's chingu) and Daesung. but their music still BLEH!

this are just the exterior changes,
delving into the depths of our seventeen/almost-seventeen souls,
amidst the deep abyss of thoughts we enclose ourselves,
and no one else is allowed to enter,
we've changed, become different.
the way we think and feel (about life, music, etc)
i suppose being in different environments, and probably halfway across the island from the twins, we've grown apart,
yet the understanding and dependence is still there.

oh wells, it's the hols, that's why i even bother posting...
next up should be janey no matter how busy she is-.-
1/4 of my jc life has gone by, what the future holds for me,
i just really dun wanna know.

ahma<3

2009-06-01T03:22:00.000-07:00

wow! the last post was like WHAT jan 19-_- that's a very long time ago...

haiz..

must rmb this place leh! its so 搞怪 and cute and it makes me super happy when i come here. so must MUST come and blog.. even random stuff:D even once in a blue moon! but must rmb this place:DDDD

okay.. trying to be 搞怪 here again:D

haha:DDD some super lame result of a super lame msn convo:DD haha when you get sian you get this:DDD

IDEAS FOR CONCEPT STORES:D
disclaimer: ideas here are copyrighted kays! dont kop and open a store for yourself://
(oh and you need loads of imagination)

1. piano with the white keys black and the black keys white:D
2. left handed guitar (not new idea:D but good stuff to put in the interesting shop:D)
3. left-handed mouse
4. printing the english books like the chinese books:D from back to front:D
5. door with doorknob. but must PUSH the doorknob inwards to open the door:D
6. fridge door swings upwards instead of opening at the hinges:D (like sports cars doors:D)
7. water bottles like rabbit/hamster bottles (drink fromt he bottom instead of the top:D)
8. orange highlighter that is actually a correction tape in disguise (highlights stuff WHITE aka correction fluid highlighter-style)
9. inside out t shirts:D
10. hoodies with REAL ZIPPERS but thenthe zippers dont work
11. mirrors that only reflect the image of someone/something (this one is spooky:D)
12. notebooks but then the pages are all filled with like maybe WRITE HEREs:D only the cover pages are blank:D
13. thumbdrive slide-slide style:D (if you know what i mean:D)
14. cd covers without cds in them and they can mix their own compilations LEGALLY:D of course put them in customised cd pockets:D
15. never finishing foolscap paper pad!!!:D (with the right amout for each day:D)
16. 招財貓 becomes 招財狗/ 招財鳳梨(pineapple with the hand going up and down:DDD HAHA:D)/招財apple
17. ice mkers that makes ice bite size so that we wont chew on the ice:D
18. clock that goes anticlockwise instead of clockwise:D

haha
:D
we very ZAI:D
entrepreneurs in the making:D
haha:DDDDDDDDDD

we rock:D

and i love this place like mad!:D

---------------->jammytwin:DDDDDDDDDDD

A New Beginning

2009-01-14T05:47:00.000-08:00

i guess i should contribute to our secret "society"..
well we didn't even post after the exams though we were so free!!!
and now it's past the new year! and results are OUT!
what a bomb to mark off a new beginning.

we're the triple-7s!(i think-.-)
ok la, my results are like not as good as the brainy-twins (LIKE OF COURSE LA, anyone caught me slacking during exam period)
but whatever the outcome was, we're all really blessed:)

and this post is way way late! like 2 days after the results.
i guess recovery period was just a tad long,
considering i was blowing up like a pufferfish in anticipation,
simultaneously shooting poison to anyone that dares
disturb my inner serenity-.-
my head has finally reverted back to its normal size
and my facial muscles are slackening :)
[too taut from all that smiling]
it was just too good to be true i believe!

i shall be contented with whatever i have..
i dun even anticipate angbaos or whatever this year.
though i really really need cash! (must support album sales!!!!)

EVERYONE JUST LETS SMILE AND BE HAPPY!
~~~not matter how tough the situation may seem now with the ailing economy~~ ~
we still have to lead our lives, just a little bit more caution to whatever we buy! and to think i was eyeing a $199 pair of sneakers..
i shall stick to my nice 小說s!:)

LOTS OF LOVE::::::::::ahma::::::

報章報導10

2008-11-04T01:06:00.001-08:00

报章报道：一项调查显示，我国的赌徒有年轻化的趋势，因此嗜赌理事会展开了一系列的防赌活动。试谈谈你对这则新闻的感想与想法。

报章报道：一项调查显示，我国的赌徒有年轻化的趋势，因此嗜赌理事会展开了一系列的防赌活动。读了这则新闻后，我不禁开始为我国的年轻一代担忧，并且也为国家的未来担心。年轻人是国家未来的主人翁，如果年轻一代的年轻人如果好赌，这肯定会对国家的将来有莫大的影响。身为学生的我，也开始担心起来，深怕我周遭的人也会受到赌博的影响。

经过环球化和科技化洗礼的我们，大多数都轻易通往互联网。而互联网上的东西琳琅满目，网上赌博已经开始在网上传开。对互联网较多接触的年轻一代也会在互联网的熏陶下开始在网上赌博。年轻人在网上赌博而欠了一大笔钱的例子也不是史无前例。这也向大家警告互联网的危险。加上新加坡要建立了综合娱乐城，对于建立赌场的辩论闹得满城风雨，让年轻人多接触到赌博问题。因为在这种大环境下对赌博有更大的接触，年轻人难免会患上赌瘾。现在因为要兴建赌场，所谓“近水楼台先得月”，相信许多赌徒不会放弃这个机会好赌一把，年轻人也可能会感到兴趣而去观光。赌博就像毒品一样，一上瘾就难戒，因此嗜赌理事会展开一系列的防赌活动，防止此现象继续在年轻一代蔓延，在问题还没有太严重之前克制它。我对此举动深表赞同，因为要解决问题，就要从根源着手处理。

为什么年轻人会成为赌徒呢？年轻人容易受到社会风气所影响，而也被所谓的“同侪压力”有所激发。在现今的社会上，有钱就是有了天下，也因此，社会上竞争力非常激烈。当这种生活压力年轻化，年轻人开始有一夕发财的想法。也因此造成了年轻人赌博的问题。

年轻人已经不像上一代的长辈一样。年轻一代都在安逸和稳定的生活环境中生长，不愁吃不愁穿，导致成他们思想的改变。他们贪图享乐，幸福背后的辛酸不看在眼里。他们也在父母的呵护下宠坏，从来不见市面，认为世界上有免费的午餐，钱是长在树上，有许多不劳而获的思想。也因为他们不劳而获的思想，他们没有脚踏实地耕耘，认为可以飞上枝头当凤凰，认为世界上大家都能够中奖成为有钱人。他们在这种环境下性格扭曲，不懂得金钱的重要性，要求生活上有刺激，也因此就接触到赌博，因为赌博才能够满足他们对生活的要求。要求刺激，要求开心，要求金钱。因为传媒的传播，年轻人更容易受到不良的影响接触赌博。

现今的社会是一个金钱挂帅的社会。有钱才能够出头天。这些年轻人满怀梦想，想要多赚一点钱出头天，让大家刮目相看。他们不惜赌博的危险性，想要借机发财。所以他们以唯利是图，一直想着怎样发财，不愿意脚踏实地做工赚钱。他们对金钱的执著只会让他们更加陷入赌博这个恶性循环，最后导致成他们成为了赌徒。

现在的社会讲究速度，什么都要求快。在这个快食社会中，大家连赚钱都讲究速度，而能够在一瞬间赚钱的只有赌博。现在流行赚快钱，这些年轻人也跟着“潮流”一起走，一起赚快钱，让大家都一起快乐。但是许多人忽略了赌博的危险性，因为赢得多，也可以输得多。但是这些年轻朋友们对钱的执著让他们不惜危险去赌博，最后导致成他们患上赌瘾，成为了赌徒。

虽然嗜赌理事会展开了一系列的防毒活动，但是全国各个人民有责任来防止赌博问题太过猖狂，因为只有嗜赌理事会的努力是不够多的。政府应该软硬兼施，做好全面的防范措施及应变措施以更有效地针对这个问题对症下药。

因为在综合娱乐城的落成后，相信我国许多赌徒会趋之若鹜，纷纷蜂拥而上。政府应该在综合娱乐城内限制赌徒的年龄，而且要更严密地看管综合娱乐城的赌场，要确保年轻人无法轻易踏入赌场赌博。政府也要在综合娱乐城附近多派警察巡逻，确保赌徒不会遇到“大耳窿”的麻烦，尽量减少他们金钱上的困扰。政府也可以严谨地控制赌场的营业时间，减少赌徒赌博的机率。

既然要软硬兼施，学校也要给予学生们适当的教育。从小起，学生们必须要有正确的观念。学校可以举行一些演讲，让学生更理解赌博的害处。教育年幼一代才是真正的防范。老师们应该尽责任给孩子们灌输正确的价值观，才会防止更多的赌徒出没。

父母们需要多留意自己的孩子，确保他们不要误入歧途。父母应该试图理解孩子们平时做什么，而且当孩子稍有些不妥，就要立即给孩子适当的教育，防止他们越陷越深。家庭是大家的精神上的支柱，只要一家人一起努力，相信赌博这个问题在家庭中应该会受控制。

最重要的是个人本身。虽然大家都说小赌怡情，但是防止我们自己越陷越深，我们应该拒绝赌博一切的活动，并且非常明确表明自己的立场，下定决心不要赌博。坚定不摇的意志才能够打败赌博的赌瘾。

总而言之，既然政府已经决定建立综合娱乐城和赌场，赌博这方面的问题是难以避免的。只要适当地施行一些有效的措施，从小教育孩子们正确的观念，相信赌博这个问题会受到控制，也让政府安心地开赌场。对于嗜赌理事会展开了一系列的防赌活动，这是防范措施之一，希望大家可以支持，并且也同心协力一起解决赌博这个问题。

haha dont be mistaken i'm not churning out with bzbd. its just that the last one was done like 3-4 hours ago. so YEAH. hahah :D

報章報導9

2008-11-04T00:07:00.000-08:00

报章报道：近年来一些学校因某些课外活动拿不到奖牌，就要将这些课外活动解散，请针对这则新闻发表你的看法。

报章报道：近年来一些学校因某些课外活动拿不到奖牌，就要将这些课外活动解散。读了这则新闻后，我的心不禁酸起来，并且感到愤怒。课外活动本是学生们为了追求自己的兴趣而参加并且培养学生们的兴趣的一项活动，但学校却因为功利主义的原因而解散了课外活动。身为学生的我，为那些没有了课外活动的学生们打抱不平。

其实，这个现象在新加坡并不稀少。许多学校中经常注重这种功利主义，当课外活动并没有什么杰出的表现，就要将课外活动解散，或者忽略课外活动，没有安排特别的活动给那个课外活动的学生们。这些学校讲究的是获奖的荣誉，而不注重学生们的兴趣，因此而扼杀了学生们的自由。学校减少了对那些没有成就的课外活动的资金，让那些课外活动无法进步，导致成恶性循环，学生们也会因此而剥削了他们对课外活动的热爱。

为什么学校们如此注重奖牌呢？其实，这些都是政府的功利主义政策所创造出来的竞争，让学校们对奖牌趋之若鹜。一大群学校对那些奖牌“虎视眈眈”，到底是为了什么呢？奖牌对学生的影响良好或带来坏处？

首先，学校如此注重奖牌是因为它可以给学校带来荣誉。教育部每年都会给学校一些排名奖赏，让学校增添名气，学校也因为这些排名和奖赏，为了努力争取更好大的成绩，展示学校一直以来的进步或保持以往的水品，学校有一定的压力多赢一些奖牌，让学校更荣耀。学校的名誉是无比重要，为了保护自己的名声，学校要着重于拿奖牌，让公众看到学校超水平的带领及教导。为了多放一些精力在拿奖牌，学校需要针对几个竞争力比较强的课外活动，多培养他们，而忽略了其他的课外活动，也因为这样而解散他们。当然，现今的社会是具有极高的竞争力，所以学校们如此拼命地想获得奖牌，也是情有可原。

其次，学校注重奖牌是为了要促进学生们对学校的归属感。当学生们代表学校参赛，他们会对学校感到荣耀，特别是以学校之名上台领奖更是让学生们对学校感到光荣。学生们也会全力地为学校付出，无论是课外活动或是学业上都好。学生和学校更加凝聚的同时，也能提升学校对学生的教育。

最后，当一个课外活动可以获得奖牌，肯定会鼓舞课外活动里的学生的士气，让他们更加热爱并且更尽心参与课外活动，让学生对课外活动更加积极，将带来不浅的良好影响。

但是，相反地，当一个课外活动无法获得奖牌，他们会灰心失落，无法振作起来，再加上学校对他们的没有成就而有些“放弃”，这些学生们对自己的课外活动不再感兴趣，造成了反效果，课外活动的水平越来越差。而且，当学生们只在乎获得奖牌的时候，他们忘记了举办比赛真正的目的就是为了要学生们彼此交流并且从比赛中学习，而不是在比赛中获奖。学生们如果也着重在奖牌上，反而会失去他们比赛真正的意义。

我们要如何改善这种现象呢？因为这个现象时有社会大风气所影响，所以冰山一角非一日之寒，我们需要在许多地方着手来处理。

首先，政府的教育部需要从新考量功利主义的政策。因为功利主义的政策给学校带来少许的压力，导致学校必须功利主义而解散课外活动，所以政府们应该考量功利主义的政策，并且从新制定教育制度。

其次，学校也需要注重学生们的兴趣。学校不能因为课外活动没有获得奖牌而解散课外活动，而应该看学生们对课外活动的兴趣而考虑应不应该解散课外活动。学生们有他们自己的自由，把他们逼到其他的课外活动也不是办法。

再来，家长们也有着重大的责任。所谓养不教父之过，父母的教育是孩子们的领导。父母要从小灌输孩子们正确的价值观，不可以只注重功利主义。父母们需要告诫孩子功利主义的坏处，并且自己也需要以身作则，不可以给予孩子过多的压力，强迫他们多学才艺。反而，家长们应该鼓励孩子多追求他们的兴趣，听过他们的意见再决定要不要给孩子们报考一些才艺班，才不会施加过多的压力。

最后，学生们个人也要有一些改进。学生们不可以只依循学校的安排，让学校安排他们到什么课外活动。学生们要适当地提出意见，并且表明自己不愿意让学校解散课外活动。所谓“国家兴亡，匹夫有责”，在课外活动里的每一位学生有责任延续自己的课外活动，而不要任由学校摆布。

功利主义的社会大风气的确有利有弊，但是我们应该适可而止，在需要的地方才注重功利主义。功利主义普遍造成的压力，整个社会都能感受到，现在连在上课的学生们也成为了功利主义思想的受害者。我们不应该随着社会风气而飘荡，适当的时候也需要有自己的主见，逆着风而行走。而要改良这个风气，新加坡的政府及人民还有许多方面需要努力当中。希望在不久的将来，我们都能看到一个比较少压力的新加坡，也希望此现象能够淡化。

HAHA DUMB ME FORGOT HERE OOPS SORRY i posted on my blog. HAHA ok lah i shall take that one down from my blog. as i have said, this one that i did was very SUBJECTIVE, cos i think i actually write in a lot of my feelings so. YEAH. haha its always what i've been talking on my bloggg :D

报章报道8

2008-11-03T23:48:00.000-08:00

报章报道：吴作栋资政批评说：“家长过与保护孩子，会造成教师无法有效地履行职责”，你同意这个说法吗？请谈谈你读完这则新闻后的看法。

报章报道：吴作栋资政批评说：“家长过与保护孩子，会造成教师无法有效地履行职责”。我非常赞同吴资政所说的。

我觉得现在的父母都把孩子捧在手中，个个都是掌上明珠，从小得到父母亲的万分宠爱因此个个都娇生惯养。父母亲样样都顺着孩子的意，让孩子们变成了所谓的“小王子”，“小公主”，觉得他们永远都是对的，让他们觉得自己不应该被骂或者被打。

但这些孩子们也不能不上学。在学校，能够教导他们的正是老师。在学习中教导正确的品格，灌输正确的价值观，正是老师们的职责所在。这些在家里已经被父母亲宠上天的学生们当然也不会把老师放在眼里。多数被宠坏的学生不是上课不专心，就是吵吵闹闹，有些甚至打起驾来!

有一个例子：有一名顽皮的学生因为欺负了同学，老师怎么劝也劝不了，当场打了那名学生。后来，那名学生的父母亲竟然不分青红皂白，一直袒护自己的孩子，要求老师向他们的孩子道歉。那名学生不但没有受到任何处分，还得意洋洋地说自己胜利了。

很多的家长就是这样，没有查清楚事情的来龙去脉，就指明是老师的错，一味的袒护孩子。它们不停的投诉那名老师，最后让老师背上黑锅，为了就是不要让孩子受伤，或是受到任何的处罚。他们甚至还向校方提出不满，怂恿校方让老师受到“应有”的惩罚。对于这些家长，校方也无能为力，只好采取行动息事宁人。

这样一来，教师们便不可能有效的履行职责。老师为保住饭碗都不敢骂学生，也终止了严厉的教导方式。对于此类学生便只有漠视。老师们在做任何的教导之前都会有所顾虑，所以不可能呈现最好的教导方式，传授给学生的当然也不是一百分的。

父母亲的溺爱，老师的顾虑，会造成更多不堪设想的后果。本来已经是“温室里的小花”的孩子们，把家长的袒护和老师的纵容当作是“肥料”，让他们“茁壮成长”。学生们在学校变得更加任意忘为，肆无忌惮，找机会爬在老师的头上。他们的骄傲和自大更让老师们束手无策，无法教导他们。时间久了，也会放弃教导这些学生。这样一来，学生们的品格会受到不良的影响。

对于这个现象，除了孩子们本身有错之外，我以为家长和老师双方都有责任。

第一，家长们不应该太过于保护孩子，甚至溺爱孩子。家长如果从小就过于宠爱孩子，就会让孩子变得自大。父母亲应该从小就让孩子多些独立，也要让孩子知道“尊师重道”的道理。家长们也应该让老师们有多一点空间来教导孩子，毕竟那是教师们的职责。第二，老师和父母应该有合作，老师在课堂上教导，父母在家里教导孩子们。老师们在教课时也一定要有耐心，对于比较不听话的孩子们可以用其他会引起他的注意力的方式进行教导，不应该随便发脾气或者打学生。第三，校方也应该有责任确保家长和老师之间不会有任何舞会和摩擦，因而造成学生们学习上的困扰。

综上所述，我认为现在最重要的便是家长和老师们有效的沟通，才能以最有效的方式促进学生们身、心、灵的发展。

报章报道7

2008-08-24T03:44:00.000-07:00

报章报道：最近，一份调查报告指出照顾老年人的健康和福利的重要性。这份报告强调有必要为老年人提供更好的生活环境和设备，使他们对生活有信心，也能照料自己的生活起居。试针对这则新闻报道，发表你的意见。
Crap. This qn bloody difficult, any suggestions how to write it better? I’m writing shit. as you can see, at around the ending i kind of gave up writing this super dumb topic that makes me head pain, therefore all the 敷衍type of answers. HEHE which will get me super low marks

报章报道：最近，一份调查报告指出照顾老年人的健康和福利的重要性。这份报告强调有必要为老年人提供更好的生活环境和设备，使他们对生活有信心，也能照料自己的生活起居。读了这则新闻后，我不禁感叹这个报道的正确性，并且支持这份报告所强调的行为。

老年人已经老迈，无法像年轻人一样充满热血地工作，自己养活自己。他们的身体衰弱，需要家人经济上，行动上，还有心灵上的支持与帮助。老年人依赖着外界帮助，才能继续活下去。但是，当这些老年人的家庭因为嫌他们麻烦而抛弃了他们，这些老年人会对生命失去了希望，因而无法释怀自己是包袱。而且，这些老年人因为年老，行动不便，而无法照料自己。也因为如此，老年人如果有更好的生活环境和设备，他们更能照料自己的生活起居，也自然而然对生活有了信心。

为什么我们要为老年人提供更好的生活环境和设备呢？

首先，老年人的社会价值高。他们可以当年轻人的前车之鉴，因为他们富有经验，可以指导年轻人在社会上如何做事情。老年人身为“商场老手”，他们能够教导下一代，并且将他们的继续薪火相传，让新一代的主人翁能够成为撑起国家的栋梁。因为如此，老年人还是可以继续在社会上贡献，并不是大家所认同的“废物”。我们更应该需要让老年人知道他们在社会上是有一定的身份地位，为老年人提供更好的生活环境和设备。

其次，老年人也可以为年轻一辈的家庭照顾孩子。老年人因为没有工作可以做，他们可以帮忙照顾孩子，带大孩子。老年人有许许多多的经验可以和小孩子分享，让孩子们对其他东西有更好的了解。这对孩子的成长也有莫大的帮助。虽然许多父母不愿意让老年人照顾孩子，深怕老年人宠坏孩子，但是和老年人多沟通，肯定可以避免这类的问题。

最后，老年人可以让一个家庭更完美，增加家庭凝聚力。夫妻难免会吵架，而老年人能够成为夫妻之间的中间人，让夫妻沟通更加良好。而且，老年人能够带给一个家庭更多温暖，促进家庭凝聚力。

我们要如何为老人提供更好的生活环境和设备呢？政府已经推行一些政策，鼓励国人照顾他们年迈的父母，例如如果家里有养老年人，国人可以申请减税。这些政策是政府为了鼓励国人照顾老年人，给他们一个更好的生活环境和设备，让他们可以享受家庭的温暖。

可是，我们还是需要多方面的帮助。政府可以推行更多政策来鼓励国人照顾他们的父母。当然，政府也可以实行一些计划，翻新一些照顾老人的设施以及给予老人一些津贴，让他们能够在经济上独立起来。

学校也需要教育学生们孝心的重要性，让这些学生们以后愿意照顾他们的父母。如果教育有方，让年轻一代的国人富有爱心，他们更愿意照顾他们的父母，尽了他们的孝心。

国人个人也要有决心照顾自己的父母。他们对于照顾父母必须有好的观念，不要一致地咬定老年人对家庭只是一种包袱。他们要多欣赏老年人可以带来的贡献，才能够接受照顾他们年迈的父母亲。

总而言之，我们必须为老年人提供更好的生活环境和设备，让他们对生活有信心，而且也能照料自己的生活起居，老年人才能够为社会贡献。老年人所带来的贡献并非小，所以国人们都要尽一份力照顾自己的父母。

报章报道6

2008-08-23T09:30:00.000-07:00

报章报道：吴作栋总理呼吁新加坡人讲正确英语，而不是新加坡式的英语。试写出你读了这则新闻后的感想。

报章报道：吴作栋总理呼吁新加坡人讲正确英语，而不是新加坡式的英语。我读了这则新闻后，觉得吴作栋总理的呼吁情有可原，并且支持他这样的呼吁。

的确，新加坡人民大多数日常中都使用新加坡式英语交谈，很少看到新加坡人民使用标准英语交谈。当然，我们不能断定这样的现象是坏的，因为新加坡式的英语参杂了不同宗族的语言，成为新加坡省委多元化宗族的国家的一种指标。但是，我认为此现象带来的影响弊大于利，也因为如此，我才会对吴作栋总理的呼吁深表赞同。

虽然新加坡生长的小孩都在学校接受英语教育，但是因为诸多因素而导致成新加坡式的英语一代传一代。新加坡人民因为使用惯新加坡式的英文，到了国外和外国人交谈时候也是用了新加坡式的英文交谈，让许多新加坡人出国时陷入了鸡同鸭讲的情形。这种情形反映了我国的英文水平不优，让许多其他的国家摸不着头脑。

为什么吴作栋总理会要求国人用正确标准英文来交谈呢？以下，我会分析几个原因。

首先，新加坡通过讲正确的英语，才能促进国人与外国人的沟通。这个世界已经全球化，而英语是串联整个世界的一座桥。新加坡人必须掌握好讲英语的技巧，才能够在世界中力争上游，多与世界各地的领导有着有效的沟通方式。这能够促使新加坡的发展，新加坡才能够在竞争力强的世界中占有一席之地。

其次，讲标准的英语让国人在国外呈现比较良好的形象。当新加坡人在国外使用他们惯用的新加坡式英文，许多外国人对新加坡这个国家的英文水平质疑，并且让许多新加坡人在国外遇到尴尬的事情。为了更好表现出新加坡人的修养，国人必须多利用标准的英语交谈，让标准的英语成为了谈吐言论的习惯。本地新加坡服务业的工作人员碰到外国来的游客，也能有效地沟通，呈现新加坡为一个文明的社会的一个好形象。

最后，使用正确的英语能够利于学习。学生们因为生活环境从小就开始用新加坡式的英语讲话。但是，学生在考小学离学考试，O水准和A水准，都必须用标准的英语来回答问题。如果学生太惯用新加坡式英语，会导致成学生在考试中也用了不标准的新加坡式英语。新加坡的学生们是通过英语的教育，大多数的科目都由英文学习，所以在考试中使用标准的英语是一个对学生的需求。学好了英语，让学生们适应了利用标准英文表达自己，在考试中肯定势在必得。出国进修的学生对于了解其他国家所惯用的标准英语也不会有困难。

使用正确的英语，对新加坡身为一个国家带来了很多好处。也因为这种好处，吴作栋总理才会呼吁国人讲正确的英语。

首先，使用正确的英语能够让新加坡维持和全世界良好的沟通关系。新加坡人必须在竞争力强的世界中和其他国家有效地沟通，才能够在世界的顶端力争上游。其次，新加坡人能够在外国人表现出更优良的形象。最后，新加坡人使用正确的英语对国人的累积知识有莫大的帮助。

当然，使用正确的英语也会带来坏处。国人会因为少了新加坡式英语而失去了新加坡风土的特色，让国人失去了贯连新加坡人的一个身份。但是，如我所说的，这个行为肯定利大于弊。

要鼓励国人多使用标准英语，新加坡政府和国人都需要合作，才能宣扬使用标准英语并且让更多国人使用正确的英语。我认为，要鼓励国人多使用正确英语，必须从小培养起，因为所谓江山易改本性难移，当新加坡式的英语成了一种习惯，这种习惯是很难改变的。

首先，学校需要培养一个使用标准英文的一个学习环境。学校在周会上鼓励学生多使用标准英语，而且可以多举行推广讲正确英语类似的比赛，激发学生对讲正确英语的兴趣，从而培养学生说标准英语的习惯。学校的老师们也要用标准的英文讲课，学生才能接触到标准的英语。

其次，父母们也要培养一个优良的环境让孩子接触更多标准英语。父母本身要身为对孩子的好榜样，多在家里说标准英语。在这种优良的英语环境下，标准英语在潜移默化下成为了孩子们沟通的习惯。

最后，多媒体也需要利用标准英语。因为科技发达，孩子们接触媒体的机会大，而这些媒体对于孩子的影响不小。本地的一些英文的综艺节目需要改良，多用标准英语，孩子们对于标准英语的接触更大，更能激发孩子们用英语沟通。

当然，我们本身对于说标准英语的意愿才是最重要的。所以我们需要接受多讲标准英语这个新习惯。

总而言之，利用正确的英语对于新加坡的发展是利大于弊，所以我们需要多说标准英语。而要推广这个风气，国家政府需要多方面的合作才会看到效果。想必，新加坡人都讲标准英语的未来已经不远了。

报章报道5

2008-08-23T09:16:00.000-07:00

报章报道：根据调查，有些人认为读书是一件快乐的事，有些人却认为是一件痛苦的事。试写出你对这项调查的看法。

报章报道：根据调查，有些人认为读书是一件快乐的事，有些人却认为是一件痛苦的事。读书可以是一种消遣，也是让我们增长知识的好办法，对于那些觉得读书是一件快乐的事的人，我感到非常欣慰，但对于那些不喜欢读书的人，我替他们感到担忧。

书的种类千变万化，各式各样的书籍都有。读书的方式也有很多，其中就有‘活读书’和‘死读书’。多数认为读书是一件快乐的事的人读书的方式都是灵活的吸收书中的知识。这样一来，他们能够在书中寻找乐趣，也因此爱上读书。‘活读书’的人也会渐渐发现读书所带来的好处。书籍能让我们增广见闻，打开我们的视野，让我们了解与发现更多新的东西。所谓，‘读书破万卷，下笔如有神’。多读书也能让我们增强写作水平，而如果要‘活读书’，就得寻找读书的乐趣。

‘死读书’的人会认为是一件痛苦的事，因为他们在读书时只看表面的意思，忽略了深刻的含义，也就不觉得读书是一个有意义的事，因而放弃读书。而这些‘死读书’也认为读书是一件痛苦的事的，大多数都是青少年。现在的青少年都不爱读书，一叫他们读书就会唉声叹气，甚至大声嚷嚷，认为读书就是一个苦差。

而造成这个现象最大的原因就是现在的青少年从小就没有机会接触很多的刊物，造成他们排斥读书，也觉得读书对他们来说比登天还要难。这也是因为孩子们从小就接触电脑，很少会自动拿书来看。他们一有时间就会上网玩电脑游戏，哪还会抽空静下心来读书？这让孩子们对于书籍感到反感，长大后就更会排斥读书，连读一篇文章都显得很难，是一件痛苦的事。除了这个原因，还有两个因素造成这个现象。第一，在新加坡的社会，家长与孩子都着重于成绩，而不珍惜过程。因此，读书变成了课外的休闲活动，自然就变成不那么重要了。少接触书籍，就会变得陌生，读书也就渐渐变成了苦差。第二，青少年都比较受西方文化的影响而造成他们不喜欢中华文化，对于中文字，有些则是一概不通。所以，对这些学生来说，读书，尤其是华文刊物，更是一种折磨。一篇文章挤了满满的中文字，对他们来说就只像一张乱糟糟的白纸，怎么读也读不下。

青少年不读书的现象实在让人担忧。如果不在年少时培养起好的阅读习惯，长大后想好好读书的几率就会越小，因为他们已经习惯不读书，也不习惯读书了。读书的确让人受益匪浅，而觉得读书是痛苦的人就不会因为读书而受益。所以，我们必须加强青少年读书的习惯，让他们发现读书的好处和阅读的乐趣。

第一，政府可以有更多推广阅读的活动，比如能和图书馆联合举办更多活动让青少年参加，吸引他们读书，并且培养阅读的兴趣，让他们不会再对书籍感到陌生，或感到反感。这些活动能让青少年积极参与，和朋友分享读书心得，让他们又推动力去读更多书。第二，学校也能够让学生们有更多机会接触不一样的文章。既然学生上课的时间往往比在家里还长，从学校课程着手应该是最有效的。老师们能够在课堂上介绍有关作者的背景，让学生们对文章更有兴趣。第三，家长们应该多鼓励孩子们读书，少上网，也告诉他们读书的好处。青少年也应该在读书的时候更加积极，是着去了解内容，才不会觉得内容乏味，因而觉得读书很痛苦。青少年自己的努力再加上各方面的支持，一定能够改善这个情况。

总而言之，读书有苦也有乐，但是为何我们知道读书带来的好处，却不去寻找读书的乐趣呢？读书的乐趣，需要我们仔细地寻找。只要我们不再排斥阅读，读书就会渐渐变成一件轻松有趣的事了。让我们把读书从一个痛苦的事，转为一个能带来快乐的事吧！

报章报道4

2008-08-22T21:22:00.001-07:00

报章报道：去年7月1日起，咖啡店及小贩中心已经开始禁烟。试谈谈你对这则新闻的看法。

Standpoint:对政府下此政策深表赞同/支持，并且对国家深远的发展有好处

1. 健康—消费者因为烟客在小贩中心中抽烟，因此吸了许多二手烟，对身体有害。国人大多数都到咖啡店和小贩中心用餐，因此他们接触到二手烟的机会很高。新加坡因为二手烟而患上肺癌的几率高，所以减少吸二手烟也会减少患上癌症的人数。减少了在咖啡店和小贩中心的烟客的数量，必定能够减少国人/消费者吸进二手烟的数量，大致上让国人的健康好转。

2. 环境—环境污染，吸烟时吐出的烟雾会造成空气污染，有贡献于全球暖化现象。而且，烟客们随地丢掉烟蒂的行为造成了环境污染，造成周遭环境脏兮兮，用餐的环境恶劣。实行这个新法律，会减少在咖啡店和小贩中心的烟客数量，从而减少了烟客在小贩中心用餐时随手丢烟蒂，让国人用餐环境更优良。而且，烟客少吸烟让空气质量良好。

3. 提高生活水平，创造更文明的社会--国人更注意他们身为代表新加坡的言行举止，展现出更文明有内涵的人格。因为环境优良而生活素质提高，让国人更享受用餐。烟客打架闹事的事件会减少，显得新加坡人更文明。

1.国民健康转良，少吸进二手烟。

2.小贩中心环境质量提高，让国人更加享受用餐，提高用餐素质

3.更凸显新加坡为一个花园城市的荣誉，名不虚传，带动其他国家到我国，促进旅游业的业绩（空气好，环境干净，吸引外来游客到新加坡）。培养更文明的社会（不会随地丢烟屁股），促进新加坡未来的发展。

1.需要小贩们的合作，尽量避免烟客继续轻视这项新法律，主动要求烟客禁止吸烟，并且警告他们严守法律。

2.设置热线，如果烟客打架闹事不肯合作，要求警方合作一起对付这些烟客

3.消费者也应该要主动劝告那些烟客不要再小贩中心吸烟，才能让这个法律更有效，而且提高自己用餐水平。一石二鸟，为何不尝？
*means not to have that bohpian attitude~ :D

4.政府需要大规模推广此法律，在显眼的地方贴上通告（例如公共交通/平面媒体），更大肆宣传此政策。政府也必须平抚那些烟客的不满，通知他们这项政策的出处。

总而言之，政府立下此法律，必定有其原因。为了让这个法律更有效地在新加坡推广，政府需要小贩和消费者的努力，一起确保这项新法律严格地推行，才能起到立下这项法律真正的好处。对于这项法律，我们应该给予政府大力的支持，才能看到有效的改善。

报章报道3

2008-08-20T07:36:00.000-07:00

报章报道：劳动力发展局将拨出180万元，在两年内为5000名小贩提供培训。培训的内容包括：顾客服务、摊位摆设和食品卫生等等。是针对这则新闻报道，发表你的看法。

对于这个计划/措施深表赞同。

原因1 - 新加坡在发展的同时，需要提升本地业者的服务水平。新加坡也被誉为美食天堂，在小贩中心工作的小贩一定就得扯上关系。既然我国是一个美食天堂，小贩中心已成为了新加坡的一种标志/象征，所以小贩的服务态度会在某种程度影响我国在游客的心中留下的形象。实行这个措施，会提高小贩的服务水平，留下好的印象。

原因2 - 近几年，现价破夜新开了许多餐馆/食阁。这些地方有冷气配备，在炎热的天气下，大多数的新加坡人都会选择到那里用餐。这使得小贩中心的顾客减少，影响了小贩的收入。因此培训能够让小贩把顾客引回小贩中心。

原因3 - 在人民的收入不断上升的情况下，他们对于生活起居更加讲究，认为吃饭这种简单的东西也是不容忽视的。他们对于小贩也更挑剔，所以只有在小贩参加培训之后，才能满足顾客的要求。

政府的这个计划是一举两得的。

这个计划如果成功，将利于小贩和顾客。培训的内容包括：顾客服务、摊位摆设和食品卫生。
好处1- 小贩不但能够提升技能，吸引更多的顾客，更高的收入

好处2- 顾客也能够有更好的服务，更有水平的食物，也不必担心事务的卫生情况。

好处3 - 政府也会有好处，如果小贩中心服务的提升能够吸引更多的外来游客，全国收入也会增加，这也会利益全国的人民。

这个计划固然有效，但是如果再加上其它的措施，这件事就会更全方面。

建议1- 除了劳动力发展局拨款提供培训，小贩们可以自己积极地参加各式各样的培训课，充实自己的经验。

建议2- 如果只有一次性的培训课程，根本就没有用。当局应该确保小贩的服务水平一直保持在最佳的程度，时不时派人巡查。只有长久下来的努力和改变才能让顾客相信这些培训课程是有效的。如果小贩在一两个月后恢复原状，那当局化的钱就只是一个浪费。

当局的努力是值得我们支持的。但更重要的是小贩自己的态度和他们的上进心，计划才能过奏效。

报章报道2

2008-08-08T09:55:00.000-07:00

本地63%年轻人，多数时间花在互联网

感到担忧 – 心理和生理上的忧虑，并且担心青少年成长过程被影响而导致人品素质降低.

互联网 – 网络，可以将全世界串联起来成为一体，打通全世界的沟通方式，“浓缩世界”的效用。即使在地球的极端都能利用科技来沟通

原因1 – 互联网上充满了琳琅满目的诱惑，消遣性的娱乐例如网上聊天室，网络游戏等都在互联网上可以找到，而这些娱乐方式让人上瘾，并且花费许多时间在这些不良活动上。

原因2 – 科技的发达，生活水平提高，生活素质提高，让电脑成为了家家户户必备的“必备品”，而每台电脑都会通互联网。因此互联网“近水楼台先得月”，年轻人接触互联网的时间更多，他们更容易受到互联网的诱惑而花时间在互联网上

原因3 – 简单，方便地可以利用互联网做许多事情。（网上拍卖，网上购物，网上银行设施等）一些人在社会上无法立足，在互联网匿名身份更为自在轻松，让“互联网没有分身份高低家庭背景”的环境成为他们脱离残酷的社会的解决方式。

后果1 – 因为互联网上的活动本身素质关系（容易上瘾并且费时），年轻人渐渐地会越来越依赖互联网的存在，过于依赖互联网，而没有了互联网，他们就变得颓废不振，提不起劲，做不了事。

后果2 – 脱离社会，脱离家庭关系，脱离朋友关系，大致上说，就是脱离现实生活。因为长时间呆在互联网上，没有时间（或不愿意）去理会周遭的一切，沉迷于互联网上的娱乐/沉浸在互联网上的身份。互联网上处世待人的方式，并不符合现实生活，将互联网的一切搬演到现实生活中，弄巧反拙，更凸现出他们脱离现实的心态。

后果3 – 废寝忘食，导致成生理上问题产生。营养不均匀，无法专心上课/做事。睡眠不足，常常生病。生产力降低的年轻人对国家做出的贡献也因此降低。国家未来的栋梁是这些年轻人们。若他们不好好照顾身体反而因为花费时间在互联网上，以后怎样让国人值得信任和依靠。对自己负责任，才能对国家国人负责任。

建议1 – 学校举行讲堂，告诫学生们互联网的危险性，并且教导正确使用互联网的方法。老师布置作业时可以多关注互联网的话题，提高学生对互联网的警戒心。

建议2 – 父母必须管制孩子使用电脑的时间，例如利用奖赏方式来鼓励他们少利用电脑。而且他们可以多和孩子沟通，了解他们，才能防止他们成为互联网的受害者。

建议3 – 个人本身要努力抵抗互联网的诱惑，多激励自己阅读报章，多社交，了解身边的一切，找另一个可以发泄情绪/兴趣的活动，减少对互联网的依赖。

总结 – 互联网有利有弊，但是如果年轻人将多数时间花在互联网上，就弊大于利。此现象的影响力不只停留在他们个人的问题，而且也影响了国家的未来。所以我们需要多方面的努力来对症下药，防止此现象继续扩展。

报章报道1

2008-08-07T09:05:00.000-07:00

“报章报道：越来越多家长以金钱或礼物来奖励孩子。试谈谈你对这则新闻的看法。”

-弊大于利

-原因：

1. 父母常常忙于工作，不是整天埋头苦干，早出晚归，就是常常出国公干。因此与孩子们交流的机会变少。家长们又觉得‘养不教，父之过’，所以以金钱或送礼物的方式补偿这方面的不足。如：现在的孩子们从小就拥有手机（即使他们根本不需要），只是因同侪压力所产生的欲望，但是父母却会买给他，因为他们觉得这样做孩子就会开心。

2. 孩子们已经不会满足于简简单单几句鼓励的话，只有金钱的诱惑才会让他们更上进。金钱当作激励，已经觉得鼓励的话语没有用，有了金钱就可以买自己要的东西，物质追求与享受。现在的孩子比较有自信，不太需要心灵上的鼓励，反而比较喜欢物质上的鼓励，觉得家长的鼓励只是唠叨，苦口婆心只是忠言逆耳。

3. 社会风气腐败，金钱对他们来说是万能的。家长们以为用金钱来激励孩子可以让他们找着他们的意思，考取好的成绩。望子成龙，望女成风。家长在工作上也是被这种金钱的诱惑吸引，所以他们觉得孩子们也会被吸引，诱惑他们，在逼他们考取好成绩。

-影响：

1. 孩子长期以来会觉得读书不是应为自己的前途或者是为了增长知识，而是为了赚钱。学习的目标与方向产生变化，抱着错误的态度。

2. 覆水难收。如果以后停止了这种激励方式，孩子们会觉得没有动力再读书。没有目标，也就看不到成果。

3. 如果做事情没有它应有的报酬，比如说：做义工，他就不会去做。养成坏习惯，只看眼前的利益。金钱利益，不是以真诚的态度面对眼前的事情。

-建议：

1. 家长从孩子小的时候就不要用金钱的方式来激励小孩，以免造成不良的学习态度。可以以言语或精神上的鼓励来激励孩子。比如说，可以灌输正确的学子方针，增长知识的好处，学习的乐趣等等，让他们对学习有更浓厚的兴趣。学习态度都靠学生心里对于科目的热忱，有了热忱，也就能不费吹灰之力考取好成绩，达到父母的目标。

2. 家长们也可以和孩子多进行交流，沟通，了解孩子需要的到底是什么，再以恰当的方式论功行赏，不单单只是给予物质上的享受。这样不止能够更贴近孩子们的心，也能够控制家长对于孩子的赏识与奖励，不会让激励变成一种溺爱。

3. 家长也需要改变自己对于金钱的观念。钱不是万能的，对于孩子们来说，父母的一句鼓励的话，可能远远超越金钱的激励。父母应该用心鼓励孩子，而不是用外在的享受来鼓励他们。当然，偶尔以金钱或礼物来奖励孩子一定能够让孩子们保有积极向上的动力，但是长远来说，这并不是一个好办法。

-总结

以金钱或礼物来奖励孩子只是治标而不治本。标本兼治的方法，肯定还是家长的爱心和耐心。

2008-07-13T06:51:00.000-07:00

qingfeng blogged! haha. he blogs everyday!~ and he blogged at 9.10 pm. like the time when we go online:)
haha. i want to make wretch account too! want to make together??? haha then can go comment!~
sodagreen toppped the charts today! a thing to celebrate:)

APOLOGIES

2008-07-08T08:32:00.000-07:00

greatest apologies for the half-but-not-really conflict happening. with the great diplomatic attempts of jammytwin, the conflict has been resolved (i think) and actually, agreement not drafted out yet.

anyway no deterrance used here (ahem that means 打架?!?!?!?!?!?!?!) and we are so diplomatic CANNNN!!!
ok i'm slacking.

oxygen + water = ??

2008-07-06T08:19:00.000-07:00

REPLY TO THE AUTHOR 2 POSTS DOWN:

first, i'd like to say that I'M NOT ANGRY even though i was very tempted not to come online just now (sorry i'm revealing the reason why i never replied your sms today morning...ok partially due to my exceeded sms) wanted go on some quiet strike because sometimes i'm just like that...為了生氣而生氣...and my mum says thats not good. I DONT CARE~ i'm jsut so childish >:D

how can i be 生氣 with you?? ok even though my post below (this and the last post) MIGHT sound a little, but its not ok!! its truly purely not! its just 氣頭上的話 and then its like. yeah. just imagine trying to be 生氣 with water and not drinking it because you're angry at it. yepp. so thats the extent of how i cant be 生氣 with you.

anyway...the quite angry points.

i shall reiterate my point there, you're never alone ok! i mean, its just like the laws of physics, why people can sleep on nail beds, because each nail gets an equal amount of force so end up, the nails all get a very small force so the reaction force doesnt poke the damn dumb guy sleeping there. ITS THE SAME YEAH? i mean, you have so many people here, and whats wrong with getting the load to be shared? (i shall not say that we are nails since it sounds like an ugly 比喻) whatever you're feeling or thinking or that responsibility that you're trying to take away from me (*ahem). its all the matter of sharing! damn i give up on english. because i can never express myself clearly with english

你覺得如果你一個人承受我們會很好受嗎?
然後一個人就在那邊悶然後也不知道你在悶什麼東西
也不知道是不是好的,是不是不好的
至少至少讓別人知道自己在想什麼
除非你真的超喜歡玩這種無聊的抓迷藏
那我也不管你了,真的,你就自己在那邊悶吧

oh crap. i'm talking evily again. sorry. i didnt mean it that way. (the damn use of chinese)
anyway the point is, i dont feel good if you're there like closing yourself for i-dunno-what reason and then you're not particularly feeling happy or whatever. and then you dont want to let anyone know. and that reminds me of 神秘嘉賓 mv because that damn woman keeps running around and around and making my head pain. its kind of the same thing.

YOU KNOW WHAT. i have to admit i dont understand a single thing what you're writing there. i suddenly have that realisation of how people read my emo shit and goes off having this ?! thinking in their brain. and really. i dont understand a thing, so i dont really think i have the 資格 to really lecture you about whatever. still. i felt the obligation to. i cant just let you just walk around feeling bad/emo and then what am i supposed to do? and then you go to school like nothing happened and WHAT?! whammo and after school you go posting (or rather, NOT talking/posting/sms-ing) sadness and all that.

whoa. suddenly i'm not very angry, see my lightening tone....because of joanna! damn her man! her music everytime just calms people's soul (ok you'll know that i type the last paragraphs first then the middle portion because its kind of obvious where i'm qutie angry and where i'm not)

i'm not really sad about you not coming online or whatever already, because i know everyone's not really coming online except for dumb me (and smart jammytwin!) and its because of the O levels. so that one is out of the point. but still, i HOPE that you're resting enough.

but anyway, now i dont know a single thing of what you're thinking (because you want to shut yourself up somewhere) and you dont sms me or whatever or call me or whatever and then i can only tell you to drink more water and sleep more and stop studying so much because your brain will be fried before o levels come. and you know. its really true ok. i dont want to lose this person called ahma which is 早晨第一杯水. HELLO. LET ME REPEAT MYSELF. I DONT WANT TO LOSE THIS PERSON CALLED AHMA WHICH IS MY 早晨的第一杯水 AND THE PERSON THAT I LOVE A LOT A LOT A LOT A LOT A LOT (actually not enough "A LOT"s) OK!??!

[this para suddenly 3rd person??]
dammit. i always tell myself that i can scold people, but i cant really scold people.
i shall not call ahma. everytime i call her its even worse. sometimes i wonder if it was her on the other side of the line. SHE DOESNT BLOODY TALK ON THE PHONE and maybe for goodness sake it might be sarah. HAH. and then the thought just kind of scares me. later its some alien taking over ahma's body or somethign!!! (been reading too many war of the worlds) but anyway, because i dont like that kind of 若即若離 feel, like 很近又很遠 that kind of thing. dammit. it doesnt give a sense of security at all. and i think i'm kind of too young to be talking about these kind of thing, but WHO CARES.

[ANGRY ALERT -- before joanna songs kicked in i wrote this part]
and to finish this reply, dont you think its kind of stupid (ok being harsh here again :/) that we're trying to communicate like POSTING?!?!? sure. i mean there's such a thing called sms (currently unavailable due to my stupid exceeding smses) or phone calls or msn. and i think i'm being plain dumb like trying to make my point here. but everytime i call people then i'll forget what i want to say :/ and then you dont come msn like AT ALL (ok...for my time) except for habenying and i dont feel like talking on habenying because liyi sucks.

ok damn. i promised jammytwin this would be a 心平氣和 reply....lately cant really control my damn emotions/hand which is typing almost everything my brain is processing. i should learn to have a higher EQ and be more sensitive and whatever right? since my letters everytime say i will learn to be more 乖 and stuff. actually i dont think it matters now, since whether i'm 乖 or not doesnt really change a thing.
[END OF ANGRY ALERT]

ok. paiseh for the ~~quite~~ angry reply.

REPLY TO THE AUTHOR OF THE POST BELOW THIS:

hello jammytwin! dont worry! even though i really dunno what happened on friday but i know that you're not sad or whatever already so its alright! and i'm not even sure what happened to me on friday now :O hurr i'm kind of crazy?

sorry for kind of ignoring your 勸架 thing...really sorry! dont worry you'll be the best negotiator. i promise to talk very 心平氣和-ly :D because of joanna's songs! hehehe

2008-07-06T06:00:00.000-07:00

我們真的是三個emo的小孩

im here to 勸架. i mean its alright to relieve your emo streaks here:) its good. cos at least by doing that we can really know what you are thinking and really be by your side when you need help. actually i really thank you two for being there that day. cos i think if i was left alone i will really cry. cos that is the situation that im always talking about and how scared i will be. so really, 謝謝你們, 謝謝你們陪著我 even if you dont even know what is going on but thanks for being there:)

anyway, jane 不要生氣了! haha.

and i realised becca always comes to read himitsupimi! haha:) she's our 忠時讀者:) and i think no one else really comes here to read. oh wells:) its ok:) its ours anyway. we read can le. of course more people read also good lar:)

~

crappy

2008-07-06T05:24:00.000-07:00

向来不擅长于表达自己，
初次见面觉得我冷酷，
有那种接不进的感觉
散发出一股凶气
随时爆发

blehblehbleh
reply post to jane's
im sorry i made you angry
like first time you actually angry at me:(
i mean i know that you're not actually pissed with me,
that you're still talking to me
but still...

i don't want people to worry about me
i'd pretty much prefer to worry about others
to fuss around other people

i'm not good at expressing myself,
some things i say don't make sense to others
even to me it seems nonsensical
perhaps i think things through too carefully
and everything seems to be in order
but the words that spill are a jumble mess of what used to be orderly

and snapping at people seems like my past time
i have zero tolerance level
maybe to myself too
that's why i lose control sometimes
and just feel like crying

keeping things to myself, that's what i've always been doing
the expectations that seem to be non-existent
creates an imaginary gust of wind, that blows me of my feet
the feeling of insecurity and instability
the pressure drives me up the wall

i'm that insignificant,
people think i have everything
perhaps i do, i'm full in my family life,
i have wonderful friends, i have wonderful things,
all these brighten my life
but there's a patch of darkness
a shadow of myself
i should probably wallow up in that darkness
and see the world in brightness

i take things for granted
i should be damned
my life is a little dented
happenings in my life are too concentrated

i'm barely a sixteen year old
oh sweet sweet sixteen
but that's just so so insignificant

2008-07-04T09:07:00.000-07:00

after reading ahma's emo post, instead of being emo, 我反而比較生氣....
honestly, i never read your post until JUST NOW. (which emans when i call you i still havent read yet)

AND I STILL WANT TO SAY THE SAME THINGG!!!
辜負我的postcard, 我的痠痛的手,我的筆的墨! the reason why i'm writing letters to you is because its supposed to keep you happy and so you wont go and emo so much or whatever! and then now you tell me you're emo! ok i'm not blaming you for being emo. at least sometimes come online right? otherwise i dunno what you're thinking and you dont reply my sms-es very often and then YEAH so i dunno a single thing and then you pop out telling me you're emo and make me very 緊張 because i had that impression that everything is alright!

(wow that's a long sentence)

anyway, i am super positively sure that i can take whatever ok? today (ok yesterday, officially) was not because of anything in school ok!!! really!!! and anyway my emo streaks dont last, if you see from today (yesterday) and so, dont worry about me ok? 我是超級無敵強到爆頭的天才!

and you must start saving up your tears (unless there is the need for it) because i'm bringing you to the shop that exchanges the tears for diamonds REMEMBER! tsk :( sometimes i wonder if you got read my postcard THOROUGHLY because need to read between the lines! (not ddt's stupid joke) but anyway no stress. i'll just try keep the letters/postcards so that the objective of the letters/postcards can be achieved.

if emo then call me. HAHA INCOMING MINE IS FREE. i shall try to get the cordless house phone with me next time. TSK today failed to intercept it to get free calls:/ but anyway out of point. PLEASE AHMA, NEXT TIME TELL ME/JAMMYTWIN/WHOEVER WHAT YOU'RE FEELING OK? otherwise you'll be just behaving like me! and somemore you say i'm not being veyr good doing that! and indirectly you're saying yourself! but the diff is i'm a plant cell and you're an animal cell (if you get what i'm talking) so please please please x 100, next time let me know anything ok!!!! otherwise you dont tell me anything in class / dont sms me / dont come msn / dont blog then i dunno what you thinking!!!! i cant read minds very well now (even though i can last time)

LAST LAST LAST VERY IMPORTANT THING! (to make my point clear)
YOU LITTLE KID, REMEMBER THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE AROUND THAT LOVE YOU A LOT A LOT SO YOU CAN JUST CONFIDE IN ANYONE, YOU CAN EVEN CONFIDE IN JUNIOR IF THAT MAKES YOU BETTER. BUT AT LEAST, JUST LET PEOPLE AROUND YOU KNOW SOMETHING OK!!! OTHERWISE ITS JUST LIKE YOU'RE STANDING IN THE ALLEYS AND WE'RE LIKE OTU IN THE STREETS! AND THEN WE CANT SEE YOU! UNLESS YOU WANT TO SAY I'M A NORTH POLE AND YOU'RE A NORTH POLE TOO! AND FINE, I'LL LET YOU BE WHAT YOU WANT TO.

IF PEOPLE WANT TO FIND YOU, WHY HIDE AWAY???

VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT THING HERE AGAIN!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE rest well ok! like at that rate you're going (from what i PERCEIVE -- see how little i know now....stupid me) you're going to get yourself brain dead before O levels come. please rest rest rest when you study ok? no one can cram like 8 hours of stuff continuously (sure that's exaggeration) and you're not going to try it! YOU'RE NOT GOING TO TRY IT OK! if i ever find you doing that i'll throw you from the highest part of bukit timah hill.

ok forget colours. wanted to make everything red to make it VISIBLE. but well, ok i will do that.>:D and that reminds you to SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP SLEEP AND SLEEP MORE OK!!!

oh yes there's obviously and ulterior motive for writing this.
1) to reply your stupid emo post that made me quite angry but i'm pretty fine with it now. because i think everytime you read an emo post on my blog you'll feel the same way as me, ANGRYY!!! RAGING FIRE!!! but still that doesnt divert my attention away from ANGRY! and thus, this post

2) to get you to rest more, eat more, sleep more and do whatever that you are lacking (sounds like malnutrition?)

3) and to get you to come on msn more often. IF YOU HAVENT NOTICED ALL THE 習慣 STUFF I'M WRITING IN MY BLOG. (i've decided to just stop using stupid emo language and tell you straight. i wonder why i persist with my stupidity in using emo language) AND YOU KNOW WHAT. I KNOW I'M VERY EVIL WRITING THIS BUT CAN YOU PLEASE COME ONLINE MORE OFTEN TO JUST TALK? OR PERHAPS JUST RELAX? (maybe our times online dont click) BUT STILL! OH MAN. :( YOU KNOW HOW SAD IS IT??? LIKE IMAGINE YOU TALK TO THIS PERSON EVERYDAY AND SUDDENLY YOU ALMOST DONT TALK TO THIS PERSON. ITS JUST LIKE DRINKING COFFEE MILK EVERY MORNING THEN SUDDNELY CHANGING TO STRAWBERRY MILK!!!! YES THAT'S THE FEELING!!! ITS SUPER SAD! argh

ok better not continue writing. otherwise i might just spill out EVERYTHING. and sometimes there's stuff i want to keep to myself FOR NOW. ^^ and anyway sometimes if i spill out whatever i'm feeling it really sucks because i really write until very very very very emo/evil/weird.

ps: is it very obvious when i'm very pissed/angry/dao/emo? hmm...

pps: i think i very evil....i used a lot of ??? and ?!?!?! and !!! and whatever. i'm sorry ahma. but very agitated lah :/ i ALMOST wrote out everything that i was thinking. crap. sometimes i should learn how to control my hand faster than my brain moves.

ppps: please please please please please i hope you see this post ok! seriously. because 這是堆積在心裡很久的話了and its like, YEAH, suddenly all come out was pretty surprised. -_- (at least i managed to make it humourous...ihope.) and at least. i felt the obligation to let you know what i'm feeling lately otherwise you wont be able to make sense any of my stupid emo shit on my blog that i dont think anyone really makes sense of. i'm making myself sound important, whatever, if --

oh crap. almost wrote out evil stuff again.

-- anyway i make myself sound important so you can ignore this paragraph.

courage~

2008-07-04T07:11:00.000-07:00

it seems like everything i pop by,
it always seem like goodbye.

all i can do is sigh,
and maybe sit back down and cry.
it's too exaggerated to say that i'm going to die,
but the words roll out as easily as we spell pie.

all we can do is try and try,
overdose of sugar to get high.
worrying and thinking during those sleepless nights,
we really have to put up a fight,
to take the plunge and come out in flight,
to fly towards the light.
but looking at my pathetic plight,
i dunno how long i can last,
but i will fight, that's a must.

i'm feeliing poetic today-.-

that was totally lame..
i wanted to go emo, that seems like the trend nowadays
my lj is dead, and i havent been here in ages
i guess, not my topmost priority to vent my frustrations in cyberspace.
i'm not too good with words as i always say,
to say the wrong thing, there'd be a price to pay.
i dunno what's going through my mind lately...
my life is stagnant, so pale
the control is slipping past my fingers, like air, not within my grasps
all i can do is take it in, and blow it out the next.

since everything is mostly in chinese, to keep it bilingual,
i will be the english-contributor
seeing everyone so tired lately, i really want to be able to
motivate everyone else, to do the best i can.
but i do not know if i can motivate even myself.
i'm not the smartest person, neither am i anywhere near that word S-M-A-R-T

someone out there is always telling me not to think too much,
you know who you are,
that you will be the one to handle everything else, to bear the brunt of everything
but no one is able to hold out on their own
one must learn that no matter what happens, someone will be there to share that burden
i want to be that person if you'll let me
seeing one emo, i dunno what to say,
the mind processes things in varied ways, but my mind
seems to be able to take only one pathway: turn behind
but i'm pushing myself, to not take that option
but my muscles are tearing, i've got to stop the swearing

time is not an entitlement
it is a privelege.
we can always ask for more time,
but it doesn't mean we'll get it.
24 hours a day may not be enough,
but 24 hours for a third world child seems like eternity

i shan't complain anymore,
hit me if i do
whack me if i do
slap me out of my trance
and pump me with the strength
to start off again
bye.

如果一切都好像沒有改變

2008-07-02T02:45:00.000-07:00

嗯...不要改變吧...
就是....好多事情改變........也不知道何時我這麼在乎有些人的一些.....不知道啦

為什麼我會喜歡上盧廣仲的歌,是因為那是我在心情有點低谷的時候,聽到他的聲音,那把毫無壓力,非常清澈(不是字面上的),而且他那種淳樸的歌曲,就然我感動了.感動其實不需要什麼,對這個吵雜的世界裡(其實我自己也好吵),感到那種無法言語的疲憊,對這個世界的喧鬧累了,對這個世界的忙碌累了,對這個世界運轉的模式累了,聽到那種充滿著純真淳樸的好嗓子,那種毫無顧慮世界的歌曲,那種脫離盲目地亂撞的生活的影子,完完全全就是感動到沒有什麼好說的.

雖然說我的心情最近轉得比alternating current還快,不過我覺得自己不應該因為自己煩悶而搞到更多的煩悶...一會兒就這樣,一會兒就那樣,我都拿自己沒輒.你知道嗎?如果感動到,我就會這樣地喜歡下去,所以說我是一個impulsive人...衝動啦.

jammy說他的詞有點怪,不過我是衝動的消費者...就沒有想那麼多了...至少我有一種更高尚的衝動消費方式....

真的...一把好聲音,不用什麼歌曲來裝飾的.
就像我們一樣,其實真真地做自己想要的,為什麼要故意地裝飾自己呢?

所以說我要做吃冰淇淋的人....毫不猶豫,毫不考慮,毫不遲疑,我要做什麼,我就做什麼,我想要這個,我就會到手.反倒是那些對不同的人帶著不同的面具,我就有點想問他們,你們到底辛不辛苦?

如果我無法面對真實的心情,我想我應該就不是我自己了....

嗯...所以我不要改變,我不要因為最近一直很多事情改變而改變,我也不想要更多事情改變...讓我已經夠不開心了........雖然說好像沒有什麼不開心的....就是這樣才不開心.......

我想當那個每次亂放炮的我....嗯....雖然好像會得罪很多人,不過我為什麼要看是人的眼光做東西呢?我要活出自己的生活,不管了

請大家不要生病喔!生病的快點好起來!! 好起來了就一起吃巧克力! ^^

2008-06-29T05:00:00.000-07:00

突然之間,覺得自己已經變了.
也不知道為甚麼,
只是覺得,應該是件好事.

tomorrow's ahma's birthday!!! yay!~!! haha. then she'll be as old as us already:) old ahma is actually the youngest among three of us:) its a funny though though. since she is always like the most sensible:) sorry jane:) haha.:)

and tomorrow she'll have loads of presents. make me jealous. i always think i dont like my birthday to be in january. see, like if next year we all have to go o jcs then i dont know anyone there, then my birthday is on january theni wont have loads of presents. june babies have alot of presents !!! they are like so 幸福 cos june already then new friends will become old friends~~ so im jealous, IM JEALOUS, ahma and janey, for being june babies:(

haha. whatever..

2008-06-19T07:53:00.000-07:00

我愛蘇打綠! :D
超high!
聽live很好聽!沉醉中!!!好像就在聽studio!
青峰唱得很棒!

好high!!!
真的好high!
haha他們好像超會說服人,因為本來就下定決心因為要考olevels,然後被他們一說就決定去看xD

超棒!!!
hahaha!!!
很high!!!!

要11點了!上radio的時間!!!~
(i think they went singapore flyer after the 簽唱會)
xD

HIGH 爆了!!!!

2008-06-15T00:19:00.000-07:00

i'm bored! i finished all the homework! :D LALALALA happy happy!!! ok, besides lit which i dunno what we must do, so i count it as NOT A PIECE OF HOMEWORK. :D SO I OFFICIALLY FINISH ALL THE HOMEWORK!

HAHAHA ok. so next week totally study test. but monday i going johor, tuesday going to novena square, wednesday going to tuition, thursday going to sodagreen. HAHAHA so the chances of failing any test for week1 is 100% (especially got ss and geog)

and week 2 got chem test! week 3 got bio test! kns. :(

ok xD JIAYOU DAJIA! :D
i got to do filing later. xD watching 小孩不笨, so hilarious! :D

2008-06-10T08:11:00.000-07:00

since jane opened her present already, im going to post this!

this album is great!! and sodagreen is one friendly and funny band:) love them<3!

tracks(live):
1. 小宇宙
2. 暫時失控
3. 相對輪IV
4. 被雨困住的城市
5. 記念
6. 漂浮
7. Creep
8. 蜘蛛天空
9. 是我的海
10. oh oh oh oh
11. 藍眼睛
12. 我只在乎你
13. 頻率

tracks(studio):
1. 呢喃
2. 陪我歌唱
3. 愛人動物

<3!

2008-06-10T05:24:00.000-07:00

hi!
i love my birthday!
ahma has exposing photos to expose later!
i dunno whether will she be exposing the photos
but anyway. i alr played jammy's present.
THANKYOU SO MUCH JAMMYTWIN I LOVE YOU!
and i wore ahma's present already
THANKYOU SO MUCH AHMA I LOVE YOU!

haha i'm getting quite tired. i didnt sleep well yesterday I GUESS because i spent like 15 mins contemplating whether should i go to the toilet, and i spent a good 10 mins trying to go to the toilet without waking anyone up, and i guessed by the time i slept it was 2:30 / 3:00. and woke up at 7:45. -_- stupid alarm of my clock doesnt work. i prsesed it and then went back to sleep again. i think ahma is a good awaker. she wakes up SO ON TIME. and i woke up suddenly beacuse i touched the alarm clock and the first question of the day: IS THE ALARM CLOCK CHEATING ME.

wow what a wonderful sentence.

thanks so much. REALLY.

2008-06-10T00:00:00.000-07:00

happy birthday to jane!!!!!!
heheehe. janeytwin is 16 years old:)
hahaha. lao le:)
ahma is there with you right now. so i sent my regards here:)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

2008-06-02T08:08:00.000-07:00

came up with these 2 stuffies. if you click on THIS ONE beside these words, its actually a 600x300 kind of thing, i wanted to make it into a blogskin template heading kind of thing, but realised its too small. BECAUSE everytime i do 1024 x 768 then its like TOO BIG. bah. but i find it nice, so i just. EHH, kept it as a momento?

this one is more of icon /avatar size. 120x120 pixels. and IT HAS NOTHING. i decided not to put anything. because i can actually stick someone's face up there and become some personalised avatar but i am a black white freak, monochrome colour (not monochrome. WHATEVER)

ok why am i using himitsupimi to post dumb gimp experimentees? :D LALALA i dunno

2008-05-27T08:00:00.000-07:00

in lieu of the great dream of opening a cd shop that provides every single thing under the whole round blue-green earth, the twins have drawn up a proposal and passed it to ahma, director of _____ bank to review and decide whether our proposal has the capability for investments.

because we are an incorruptible and transparent organisation, we hereby present you with our raw proposal, unedited, and fresh from the oven.

as you see beside these words, a purple post-it. there is an edited version of the layout of the shop, but it is currently under the security of AHMA, who is still currently reviewing our proposal to decide whether to invest in our organisation.

we will try to obtain the edited version (which is neater and more organised) as soon as possible, from ahma.

all neat words and drawings are credited to jammytwin the wonderful artist. and the ugly words + ugly squarish drawings are credited to liewWANjane.

zoom may be needed to see the picture better.
please use windows photo gallery for best results of zooming.

we have the obligation to inform you that, because this is a draft of our proposal (which we have not completed), there may be differences in our current and ongoing proposal and this copy that you (whoever you are) have reviewed. as i have stated above, we will try to obtain the current edited copy of our proposal (layout of the shop) from ahma as soon as possible, and present it all of you (whoever you are).

a 5 page word proposal regarding finance and the operations of the shop will be out soon, and these will also be reviewed by ahma. we hope that she will have the confidence in investing in our project. it will also be published to show our appreciation and respect of the public.

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HAHA i'm trying to write it in a VERY VERY VERY formal way so ahma can DECIDE TO GIVE US MONEYYY $$$ :D like. IF I HAVE TO WRITE PROPOSAL, then its like GOD so bloody long. HAHAHA and 5 page is like an underestimation actually. ok maybe its an overestimation. i'm not very sure. :D

haha suddenly very hyper now :DD THE PERSUADE AHMA PROJECT STARTS! :D

2008-05-17T08:25:00.000-07:00

BIG NEWS:

THE DYNAMIC AMAZING WONDERFUL TWINS -- JAMMYTWIN+JANEYTWIN ARE GOING TO OPEN A CD-SHOP!

this cd shop is going to contain all the cds around the world, whether is it japan version/korean version/hongkong version/taiwan version of korean bands like dongbangshinki/super junior/snsd/big bang/wonder girls/ft island/ss501/kara/csjh cds, or japanese bands like chemistry/gospellers/KAT-TUN/ARASHI/NewS/W-inds./WaT/HeySayJump! or korean singers like RAIN/BoA/lee seung gi/se7en, or japanese singers like ken hirai/K/utada hikaru/yuna ito/ayaka/ayumi hamasaki/koda kumi, or unknown chinese artistes like 胡歌, or famous boybands and girlbands like fahrenheit/lollipop/S,H.E, or great composers cum singers who doesnt receive much recognition like 张悬/弦子/小宇, or mega superstars like 周杰伦/王力宏/蔡依林/孙燕姿/张韶涵/林俊杰/罗志祥/陈奕迅/张信哲/张学友 or super talented bands like 五月天/苏打绿 or wonderful singers like 李玖哲/方大同/王若琳/吴克群/李圣杰 or rising stars like SJ-M/星光一班二班三班/快乐帮/张栋梁/郭静, WE WILL HAVE ALL THE CDS RELEASED IN ASIA! (of course its cpop, jpop and kpop)

and you think we do not have DVDs? DVD deluxe versions, concert DVDs, hidden clip DVDs, official DVDs, we do have all of them, in your preference of japan version/korea version/taiwan version/hongkong version/mainland china version, and also in first press/non first-press edition.

whats better is that, you can request for CDs that you want and we will ship it in for you! so that you wont be underprivileged living in singapore compared to the rest of the world! of course, no extra shipping charges will be charged. you can also reserve any CDs / DVDs that you would like to buy, or you can be placed on a waiting list for an unreleased CD/DVD, so that you can receive your CD/DVD as soon as possible! best thing is, reservations or pre-orders do not have any additional charges imposed!!!

HOWEVER, no merchandise other than CDs and DVDs are to be sold. BUT, CDs/DVDs that come with posters or extra goodies are sold. you can purchase artiste merchandise from our other shop, which has not been under development or planning yet.

AND!!!! this CD-shop gurantees you that whatever CDs /DVDs that you buy here is cheaper than what you can find in other CD shops in singapore. HMV, CD-Rama, Sembawang, Music Junction, Laser Flair etc. we also gurantee that old albums are also available in stock, so you can find the CD you wish easily.

THIS CD SHOP WILL BEAR ALL RESPONSIBILITY FOR DAMAGED CDs/DVDs SOLD TO THE CUSTOMER. REFUNDS/REPLACEMENTS WILL BE GIVEN FOR DAMAGED GOODS SOLD. the owners themselves understand the angst of buying damaged goods and rejected for refunds/replacements. VALUE FOR MONEY IS IMPORTANT and we gurantee you that the CDs/DVDs are in the best condition for sale.

TERMS AND CONDITIONS: this cd-shop strictly forbids the selling of pirated CDs. because the owners themselves understand the pain of buying CDs. and the existence of any pirated CDs are loathed and hated in 50km radius of the shop.

----------------------------------------------END OF ANNOUNCEMENT

this is a new aspiration collaboration of the 2 twins together, who will be 天下无敌! because this cd shop is so going to rock everyone's socks with its collection of CDs and DVDs!

of course, all that sock-rocking is not going to start without a name, so we're hiring people to come out with a name for this wonderful CD shop! financed by DBSK bank led by non other than the great AHMA who so generously decided to loan us money to start this business after we proposed for a loan (microfinancing)

any suggestions please leave a tag on the tagboard of himitsupimi[DOT]blogspot[DOT]com or baka-jin[DOT]blogspot[DOT]com or cheemalogystress[DOT]blogspot[DOT]com. otherwise, contact the owners through email -- wanjaneliew@yahoo.com.sg

after opening the CDshop, the 2 owner twins might expand and set up a bookstore too, but that's still under process. and besides, i can really explain books that well. TELL ME CDs, ahh OF COURSE I CAN CRAP OUT A LOT. but books? hmm maybe jammytwin might be better with that.

yeah. HOHO i feel damn funny typing all these :D and its late. WHOA. must tell ahma to come read this tomorrow :D

hahaha :D I LOVE THIS MANN!! :D dreaming about so much stuff lately. because got no test. totally 放松 until like hell.

2008-05-15T08:04:00.000-07:00

happy birthday to ghost. 14.05.2008
happy birthday to melissa 20.05.2008
happy birthday to feather 22.05.2008

SAENGIL CHUKA HAMNIDA~

erm. actually had 9 mins but now left with 4 :( because i went to slack :(
ok 3.

erm. YEAH. suddenly i got nothing to write
jiayou for geog test!

2008-05-12T01:17:00.000-07:00

sodagreen 陪我歌唱:)
i love this song:) ENJOY:)

夜晚的窗啊輕輕拉著夢搖晃
使你的味道掀起風浪
夢中的你啊時時抓著我分享
把心的空洞填滿溫光

長長的街道攤在月光下曝曬
隕歿的星都裝進行囊
切切的思念懸在天央上呼喊
不睡的魚載著我出海

像你的心臟無法那麼逞強
佯裝著自己不痛不癢
朝你的方向能夠乘著想像
讓隱形的我鑽進你身旁睡得多香

讓隱形的你鑽進我夢鄉陪我歌唱

revive attempts

2008-05-08T03:08:00.000-07:00

shh.
can you hear them?
the secret conspiracies that everyone is plotting.

i cant.

i thank myself for not understanding so much sometimes. i'll be forever deluded in my nice sweet perfect world, my mind will be unwavered by the ugliness of the world, and i can remain who i am, sane and original.

inevitably, our identities are washed away by the rushing tides of the human world. if we lock ourselves up, maybe we can retain some of that us where we were born with. sometimes, its better to be like that.

-----------------------------------

today sucks :/
the durian puffs are cheering me up though! my 5th one alr! (i'm definitely going to grow fat!!!)

and do i look english pro? -_- dear instructor cum friend ms mabel li says i do. I DONT. i'm so cheena can. and i had to tell her i'm going to fail english, and she was like :O REALLY OMG. hahaa and i tell her i love to read 读者 and she totally went foaming at her mouth or something.

is it that bad, like telling people i like chinese better than english??? -_-
and i was spazzing over the newest issue of 读者 (because i had nothign to do) and then later started reading. SERIOUSLY the stories in this new issue is good. but OK besides that story that's supposed to be the main one, about this woman whose husband died in war and she always thought that he died gloriously (because of a badge) and then end up the badge that she received was not her husband's but some admirer's, so after being a widow for like ZOMG years she remarried to that admirer.

funny story, but i like the language. :D

EHH PLEASE GO READ OK!
and i decided to revive here. OTHERWISE ITS GOING TO DIE!

方大同 vids

2008-05-01T08:15:00.000-07:00

方大同WONDERLAND未來-LIVE音樂會 @ taipei :D
love his singing:)
must watch:) and this live mv very nice. he move around and talk abit like jaychou:) damn nice:)
this one part two. i like this part cos got hte songs i love:) cos 4 other parts:)

this one in 娛百! hes like super funny. cos like 小豬 and 小鬼 expects him to like be very quiet and in the end he talk more than expected and spoils their rundown. but its super funny:) and got nice singing:) DUH~
this one part one only. link from her for more:D

this one in 我愛黑澀會. this one is the funniest. cos 黑人 also siao siao one and 方大同 oso siao siao one. so you see two siao siao people together. i love the part where黑人 carry 方大同:) very funny. and 黑人 just dunno how to cue from his 冷笑話：）

embedding is disabled. but its really nice. MUST WATCH THIS ONE!!!

link here
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=OkBEW8KdfQk&feature=related

2008-04-29T07:47:00.000-07:00

我想,我的心徹底地碎了
連看不到的碎片都能扎得如此地深

i'm lately very stressed/emo/hyper. I DUNNO.
i havent went to check out my oricon yet :/

ahma is the biggest 受害者 of my random mood swings/raves/madness. I'M SORRY AHMA. greatest apologies and all madness is seriously not to be intended purposely.

i'll TRY to control my emotions.
ok.
i MUST control my emotions.

i think people must be driven mad by me. i'm seriously sorry. i can build a nursing home for you guys if you want :D

惡作劇的結局

2008-04-28T06:09:00.000-07:00

so in the end there goes the last epi.
yea ahma. theres no family photo. no wang zi. no yanyalun.
but it was so sweet.
XQ and ZS is like uber uber sweet.
and its uber sad.
i cried ok? two times:/
sweet sweet ending. XQ pregnant but her eyes will be... blind.. damn sad. and see her 內心爭扎. i still love the part where ZS shouted like hell:)
oh. i so love this series. hope they have like THEY KISS KISS AGAIN. like 3rd series. will like chao high viewership.
i shall start my motivtation thingy tomorrow as i promised my mum. no more youtube till Os are over. oh ill be so deprived since youtube is like my life:/

oh. tomorrow will be a better day.

Monday Blues

2008-04-28T05:13:00.000-07:00

i think i should be like having school blues or sth.
cos quite sian to be dragging myself to school everyday
think about the lousy tests and boring and disgusting teachers
i dunno what to say! PEKCHEK

anyway,, i finished my 2wen! OMG LIKE SO SAD>>>
got me so teary!!! but anyway they rock la... just kissing scenes overload.
i loved the yushu screaming at XQ, i tot he was gonna cry or sth..
and the qiu popo also died:( gah so sad
and XQ her eye problem: so poor thing..
so scary. i think i better go check my eyes or sth
the ending quite sian diao, though it's cute
NO FAMILY PICTURE JAMMY!

gah! raving over, but i somehow got this bottled up fear within me
unexplainable
perhaps must pluck it from the depths of my heart
but it's gonna reap me apart..

-ahma

motivational talk

2008-04-27T08:44:00.000-07:00

well. MOTIVATED. yes i was motivated. :D
"YOU WILL NEVER BE ALONE!"

that was the only sentence i remember saying at the end. well another one is about what go together thing, and i dont remember a lot about the ending. the C,D,H people were teary and all that. well got one time i was QUITE teary. dont remember when.

ok anyway if you take secondary school life as 2.4KM run, right now we finished running about 2.1km, left that 1/8 already. but that last 1/8 part of 2.4km is super tiring and far, so we'll need people to PUSH us along YEAHH :D

i hope to be motivational here you know~~ :D

NO ONE IS GOING TO BE ALONE OK. ~~dumb~~ kiddy people who are reading this. and you're coming along to whatever JC i'll be going and no talking about what dumb and what smart thing. THERE'S NO SUCH THING OK!!!

lalala ok :D
and no rejecting because i fear rejection! :D I-PERSONALITY PEOPLE RULES!

AND I DONT CARE, WE SHALL BE PACKING TOGETHER OFF TO THE SAME JC.

oh no i feel weird typing all these. because i never really thought so far before you know. somehow the image of everything in the future is very blurred, i still cannot picture myself taking o levels, or receiving results, or even leaving the cca now. not that i am VERY emotionally attached to my cca (well i'm emotionally attached to my juniors) but i think i will cry on the day of farewell.

ok whatever. i'm kind of treating this as my blog. paiseh hor.

anyway 12am now! ahma's going to bring sushi! :D i'll see her approx 7 hours later.
I LOVE AHMA!
dont worry jammytwin i'm not biased I LOVE YOU TOO! :D
we both shall eat ahma's sushi so she wont really love us that much you know THEN SHE'LL BE JEALOUS OF US AHAHAHAHA and then she'll bring more sushi for us! :D

whatever weird logic is that.
lalala i dont feel sleepy.

2008-04-27T05:47:00.000-07:00

we shall 公開 this blog soon ok? haha. since ther are enough posts here already. and its quite alive. QUITE ALVIE. QUITE. hah ok. you get it.

I ATE SUSHI TODAY. yum!!!!

and im stuck on my testimonial. anyone want to help?

2008-04-24T05:07:00.000-07:00

the laptop cannot write traditional chinese. dang.
:D

anyway be motivated by the motivational workshop! :D
(actulaly the chances of me following what i have done today is only 10%)

lala will be online in like. 1 hour later? :D

I'm HAPPY HAPPY

2008-04-23T03:44:00.000-07:00

hahaha! like i'm back after a "long" "unforgivable" hiatus:)

SORRY!!! 跟你们鞠躬
anyway! this week has been hella busy!
i'm feeling like a zombie
but i'm UBER EXCITED!

cos Beautiful You/千恋之歌 got Number 1 on ORICON CHARTS

if you have any idea what im talking about:) i mean they totally deserve it. like they sold 21,000+++ alr

when are we 公开-ing the blog:)

hahah...
tmr so sian diao...TSW also say can be tiring... FOR THE MIND-.-
i think so too
aish...stupid project superachiever
we all want to be achievers.
but SUPERACHIEVERS? sounding like ego-trip to me

to the cheeky twins:::dun be too sad about wangruolin thingy k?
she'll come back again
and then nth will stop you 2!

smile smile smile makes the world go round

i'll be back to post soon!!!
i think im talking to myself AGAIN
see the AGAIN IN BOLD
yeah im a mess. jane says i talk to myself too much

<3

i need inspiration. probably go on crack or sth

- AHMA

圓圈

2008-04-22T07:53:00.000-07:00

我一步一步的往前走
這明明就是一條直直的路
我沒有看到彎曲
想讓我永恆的走下去
我走了好久
才發現
我又回到的起點
這不是直路
是個圓圈
好大好大的圓圈
我無法想像它多龐大
但是我被困在院圈中間
必須一直走
每別的路了
順著直路順著圓圈
一直不停的走
走進迷惘

yea. no ones online. and im doing maths halfway. i dunno how to do so many questions la.

HE HE! this blog getting so lag again. heng i 閑著沒事做 then come and blog.

i damn scared tomorrow's test sia. BIO and maths worse combi ever. and thursday fri sat all project super achievers. i hate it man, its damn dumb. cos we cant go and see wangruolin :( HMPH~

2008-04-14T03:35:00.000-07:00

我好累
不知何去何從
所以只停在原點
隨波逐流

MUST go read 金鎖記. really really! i think it would be the best one you can ever get from zhang ai ling. since its recognised as her 頂尖作品. its really a EMO story. the whole 金鎖記 is like EMO 開始,EMO 結尾. and the person inside 'sot sot' one. but its really nice. MUST READ MUST READ! hahaha!

金鎖記--張愛玲

today is sucha boring day in school except for the OMGZ zq gonghan thingy! haha~ JAMES~ whatever!:)

2008-04-13T05:14:00.000-07:00

HAHAH
our 惡人榜!!!!!!!!
i shall just start with a few (several)
and you two addd on yea?

1. DDT of course! always gets on my nerves
2. ZQ: double faced hypocrite sheesh
3.棒棒堂
4. F4 (except 仔仔)
5. Ft Island
6. Bigbang
7. Wondergirls
8. Jewelry
9. Bae Seul Gi
10. Johnny's Ent (except yamapi kame jin tegomass)
11. Choi Shi Won
12. Kyuhyun
13. Super Junior M (lame la)
14. 5566
15.more more more...jane you add!

原来............................................我太厉害

2008-04-08T09:27:00.000-07:00

i'm supposed to be studying physics spa! :D but here i am, i sorted out the code for the timestamp format and the date format. horrible man. what was the blogskin maker thinking. but dont get on the wrong idea, i adore this blogskin maker, because my giraffe skin, my prague skin, and this skin is by her! :D

so now i know exactly when people post. TSK. can track time de loh, for example, if a certain SOMEONE is supposed to be napping but here she is blogging, you know something's not right.

i guess there'll be random spazzing here for a while, before it finally, erm, freezes for a super long period of time again.

anyway. I ADMIT I'M THE THREATENER. hah. :D at least i didnt spray red paint or something right :D

如果水是如此地晶莹剔透
那人们就是世界上最肮脏的东西
一切世界的丑恶都是沾上不堪的泥巴

from the dear 3rd criminal by the name of liewWANjane aka baka-jin

jammy here:)

2008-04-08T03:59:00.000-07:00

yay! i love this skin:) its so cute..... haha. so ahma did you get a shock??? no? its a SURPRISE-hahhahaa.. oops not funny:)must come here and tag more often so that it wont be dead cos our LJs are all dying...

TO ALL CRIMINALS: PLEASE GO AND UPDATE YOUR LJ!! NOW!!!!

我喜歡剛下過雨的感覺
涼涼的
很舒服
有一股香味
在空氣中留蕩
像茉莉花香蓋過你的嗅覺
瞬間就變得好輕鬆
地上濕濕的
卻不曾是一種厭惡
感覺像在水面上漂
下過雨的感覺
好自在

ahma is here:)

2008-04-08T00:00:00.000-07:00

heheh! sorry im a little sot now...
i promised to be here!
and those crazy little twins are torturing me (only one la: threaten me)
anyway!
i still love the cheeky twins!

死而复生

2008-04-07T08:27:00.001-07:00

奇怪了，什么时候我又再次想起很久以前的事情了
跌跌撞撞，跑来这里，来解冻，好像不错

太久没有来，好像多了一个极乐园
可能对我来说，极乐园是一个共同秘密的地方
一个没有其他人知道的秘密，正片天下都是我们的

我们还是不要公布这个bloggg吧
不然的话就不好玩了

也不知道多久后我才能再次来
世界上仍存在着许多可能
但是，当我再次来的时候
或多或少也应该成长了吧
(除非我是逆生长的怪胎)

火，依旧地燃烧着，只是看人们愿不愿意让它继续燃烧着
很多事情都是我们可以掌握的，但是我们拿捏得不准，往往造成不理想
改变，是不可避免的，但是改变得好，改变得坏，都是我们自己决定
我们可以选择原地不动，但是，你能保证这样可以跟得上别人的脚步吗

我们是名符其实的小小大人物
比起广大无比的生命，我们是多么地渺小
小，却有这个能力掌握我们生命的一切一切

向左走，向右走，
最终，还是你的选择
你可以选择从充满悬疑的阴森穿过
没有人管你，这是你的选择

我选择很多，失去很多，未来还有更多

2008-01-13T06:50:00.000-08:00

we all never blog here!! so i shall come and post again. IN YEARS!

and they are habenying~ its SUNDAY!!
all the tests are coming. flodding of tests!
and in the middle of the flood ther is a stop.. a BIRTHDAY!
haha~
dumb me.

2007-12-26T04:27:00.000-08:00

you know what, i decided to come and tidy up the HTML a little
apparently the guy / girl / person who made the coding
has a really bad eyesight. CANT YOU SEE THE DISGUSTING UGLY SCROLLBAR OF THE LEFT PANEL?

sigh. i changed it. added random stuff, and did a little touch up here and there. (if you can spot)
highly doubt anyone will come here. :D

so. i had time right?
:D

ok lah. :D

MERRY BOXING DAY.
~~(happy 4th dongbang anniversary!)~~

七彩圣诞之

2007-12-25T07:48:00.000-08:00

MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY RED AND GREEN CHRISTMAS

merry last few minutes of christmas!!!
faster post before christmas is over~~

MERRY WHITE CHRISTMAS
MERRY GREY CHRISTMAS
MERRY ORANGE CHRISTMAS
MERRY BLUE CHRISTMAS
MERRY CHRISTMAS

have a colourful christmas!~~
七彩圣诞快乐！~~

我说，你说，他说 -

2007-12-24T07:23:00.000-08:00

christmas!
everyone. merry christmas.

坐在火炉旁
一块唱歌
看着外面下雪
桌上满满的食物

听起来，嗯，满不错的

好吧就这么决定了
下个圣诞节就这样过

if christmas was ever as nice as this.

a WHITE christmas!

yes. i'll love a white christmas.

to say the truth i've been having loads of OLD PEOPLE thoughts lately.
maybe its my problem.

I'm announcing the ARRIVAL of your ahma!~

2007-12-24T06:57:00.000-08:00

but hor no trumpets will be blown for me la...
i want silent and SECRET ARRIVAL!!!
sneak in...and CRAP
hoho

i'm sorry
just got back from church
and a little too high over christmas carols...
TIS THE SEASON TO BE JOLLY FA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA

yay!
merry christmas!

2007-12-12T06:18:00.000-08:00

i need this post to preview.THUS IT IS CRAP. worthy of being the first post on our blog!!